The Narcissist May Make Women Bitter
Narcissists leave hardened, cold, bitter women in their wake
WOMEN BECOME BITTER
By Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru
can have their
soft, gentle, feminine innocence knocked right out of them. From Bad
Abusers, to Cheaters, to Users, to Narcissists, the list of creeps out
ready to disarm us is endless.
in nature, we may be
attracted to that which is opposite of us as a way to ‘complete us’ and
feel whole. Our weak, complacent side may often (and naturally) seek
out a mate
that is strong, unyielding and hardened … but much to our dismay we
that many unyielding, hardened men come with much baggage…and this
usually discharged at the weaker sex – us. We become safe targets,
bags, and gullible, trusting guinea pigs who absorb the man’s pain and
and who never fight back. We unwittingly let men devour us out of our
and love of them.
we do wise up. We learn that some men can hurt us – deeply. And we
tough, strong, unyielding, and hardened.
being hurt, let
down, and disappointed time-after-time (in our relationships), we learn
being feminine, weak and trusting.
advantage of time-after-time, we stop being open, soft and vulnerable.
hearts bolt shut and we become overly cautious and distrustful.
being seduced time-after-time
by the feigned charm of philanderers, we stop flirting and we become
hard and impenetrable.
shell gradually replaces our soft femininity; and we soon possess a
sometimes contemptuous attitude, an unattached and distanced approach,
suspicious, untrusting nature.
Breaking up with a histrionic narcissist? Be prepared for the battle
of your life! While you are an emotional basketcase, he is as Cold as Ice!
While you are left holding down the fort and dealing with the real-life
responsibilities, he walks away from everything leaving you to mop off
his stage and pay his bills. He will punish you in ways you couldn't possibly
have ever imagined...
even acknowledge it to himself! Why? Because he's off charming the socks
off of new women as if your years together didn't even
ex continually acts in abusive, bewildering and confusing ways. He is
not above committing destructive acts. When the breakup becomes a reality,
it is likely that his 'false persona' will completely disappear all together
and you will most likely experience the most hurtful of behavior from him.
He is completely lacking in empathy, and - since he is not receiving any
admiration from you anymore - he will dismiss you and discard you as
worthless to him, consequently dropping any fake front that he use to put
up in order to keep you in the relationship. Click here to join us at our 'Breaking Up & Dealing With
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THE REAL TRUTH IS AT
inside – under this new, rough, hardened exterior – lies the
feminine, beating heart of a damsel still dreaming of her
knight. A heart
that is all too flexible – a heart that is permeable, thin, and easily
still looking for that man that will sweep her off her feet, protect
all the dragons, and lock her safely away in his arms forever after.
the man in your life,
or the men in your past, have made you close your heart, and hide your
feminine emotions, remember that you are only denying yourself the
right to be
a woman in all of a woman’s true glory. We may hide from pain, we may
hearts in fear of them being bulldozed, but in the end we only hurt
go ahead and be that
gracious beautiful soft gentle woman that you are. Today you should
your femininity. A woman’s loving heart and tender, impassioned soul is
most beautiful and natural thing on this planet. Without it, this world
be a very ugly place to live in.
– somewhere out
there – waits a man that would love to slay your dragons!
For more information on surviving a narcissist read my digital report about my own, ten-year experience of living with a narcissist here, at my narcissist advice website, BreakingUpWithYourNarcisist.com
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Guru, has been writing about breakups, relationships, abuse,
infidelity, and narcissism for years. You may read more of her articles
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